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Although one may think it is pure superstition that certain items are tabooed as gifts, it is important to remember that gifts are meant to be appreciated by the recipients. Proper business etiquette includes understanding the culture of business colleagues. Many beliefs in the Chinese culture are based on cultural values, feng shui, and religious teachings. However, a fair amount of common beliefs are purely based on symbolism. Items to Avoid in Chinese Gift GivingThe following list contains a few examples of items that should be avoided as gifts to a traditional Chinese family or in a business setting. Wok - A wok in colloquial Cantonese also means a small disaster, usually at home or in the office. Giving someone a wok symbolizes asking someone to take the blame for something that has gone wrong. In modern days, the frying pan is also avoided as a gift in Chinese culture because of its name in Chinese (a "flat-bottom" wok). Clock - Clock bears the same sound as "the end" in both Cantonese and Mandarin. "Attending a funeral" of someone in Chinese is usually called "giving the end" of a person. Most people would naturally prefer not to be at the receiving end of someone giving a clock. Many people include wrist watches in the clock category when it comes to gift giving although the Chinese character for watch has a completely different sound than that of the character for clock. Shoes - Shoes bear the same sound as "rough" or "uneven" in colloquial Cantonese. Giving a pair of shoes to someone symbolizes wishing the recipient a rough road ahead. Remember, shoes include dress shoes, sandals, flip-flops, and runners. Hat - Do not ever give a Chinese man a green hat. A man wearing a green hat in Chinese means he is being cuckolded. That is, his wife is cheating on him and everyone knows about it except him. The origin of the symbolism of the green hat is varied but many believe it is from the green hats worn by male brothel workers in the Tang Dynasty. Hats include baseball caps and touques (or knit hats). Safe Gift Ideas for Weddings and BirthdaysChinese are practical. Merchant gift certificates or money certificates (e.g Visa Gift Cards) are actually preferred by many young couples getting married so they can use the money the ways they wish to furnish their new homes or to fund the weddings. Crystal or glassware are also welcomed because the blink on the material symbolizes bright fortune. Business Gift GivingChinese is a culinary culture. Although many Chinese believe or will lead you to believe that Chinese food is the best food in the world, they are also curious and like novelties. For casual business gift giving among colleagues, a box of candies or food items that represent the giver's home region seldom go wrong. by Joseph Leung |
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